This afternoon, Dan and I took a walk because it was so beautiful.
When Danny and I separated, I remember saying to him, there are now rules in how we create this. And that's true for everyone. We have agency in how we will treat another, speak to each other, what we want this to look and how it feels.
I was diagnosed 16 years ago, and over that time there have been many chapters of my cancer, but there's been a lot of Dan's chapters too. As we came as two island kids who loved being friends, we created a beautiful life, and now we are two island kids back to have mutual respect and love.
I'm not good at creating explaing this with the connecting of thoughts, and getting my brain connected in the way I wish I could, the proton radiation was extra strong in the helps of killing those tumors.
I imagine I will be writing much more on the blog. It's really important for me to express how I'm feeling during this, as the evolves, my health, what will happen. And it's great to challenge my brain to get back to where I once was.
Thank you for being patient with me, and for loving both Dan and me, it gives me great peace to know that we are supported.
Such a beautiful way of writing this next chapter. You may not hear this enough but the way you have written the chapters in your colorful life book is so admirable, beautiful and inspiring. The way you e conducted your self and been open and transparent even though I can only imagine it’s really hard to do that. I just want you to hear, to know how you and Dan are indeed supported. Supported in prayer, supported and lifted in thoughts and genuine hopes of healing and happiness! We love you and we are here for you and cheering you on, both of you. Hugs to You and Dan.
ReplyDeleteEcho the comment above and send you and Dan so much support as you navigate the next chapter.
ReplyDeleteI'm so happy to see that you navigated the separation and made lemonade out of lemons.
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